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			<content-encoded><![CDATA[<p class="p1"><i>by Mark Pavilons</i></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">“Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need.” </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">– halil Gibran </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There's a saying that tells us to give what we are never short of. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">When it comes to giving, many of us think of lavish gifts or monetary donations. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Au contraire mes amis. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">If we follow the above sentiment, we give what we have in abundance. The human heart holds untold compassion and is often a motivating factor in all that we do. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">The human mind never stops thinking, creating, and finding solutions. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We have so much to give, we only have to look inside. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I've been very fortunate to have met some fascinating, talented, and very giving souls in King. Several local artists have become friends and their generosity is rivalled only by their talent. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Several of them donate original works to charity or good causes, and I've witnessed this first-hand. A gift of art, while it has a monetary value, is one of the purest forms of giving. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's a piece of work from the heart. It's an array of images that excite the human mind and spirit. It's a gift that truly keeps on giving. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Money comes and goes, but a gift of art lasts forever. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What is also quite valuable – priceless in fact – are our personal stories. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Human beings began teaching through verbal stories, tall tales, anecdotes and personal encounters. This is how our race began, in the caves and wide open spaces of the African savanna. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We continue to tell each other stories, at public events, family gatherings, over lunch and via newspaper interviews. These stories, each and every morsel from someone's personal tale, are like gold nuggets. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I often tell people that the huge bonus of my job is meeting interesting people and learning about them – their talent, culture, accomplishments, passion and beliefs. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">It's the neatest way to learn and become an even better person! </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">“From each according to his ability, to each according to his needs,” while originally penned for another purpose, holds true today. I wonder whether Karl Marx would applaud its use to today's world of compassionate human beings. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">This is the ideal society, but of course, not so easy to put into practise. We have socialist and communist governments in power today, but I don't think any of them are so pure in their approach. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Most of us fully understand the concepts of giving, paying it forward and spontaneous acts of kindness. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">One would think it would be the wealthy who donate the most in our society. The truth is, the dwindling middle class is the most generous group in our midst. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Perhaps it's because those of modest means hold hope, generosity and goodwill very dear to their hearts. Perhaps they've learned some hard lessons in life, or picked up some positive messages from their parents. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">But you see, wealth is a relative term. In today's uncertain economic hurricanes, monetary wealth can be fleeting. Possessions are merely things – assembled trinkets to stand as a testament to one's personal good fortune. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">But seldom are vitally important things like happiness and success related to finances or career status. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Over the years, I have polled hundreds of people and asked them their definitions of happiness and success. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Not surprisingly, the answers centred around family; mental contentment; being appreciated for one's talents and putting things in perspective. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">As different as the seven billion people on Earth are, we share one thing in common – he pursuit of happiness. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I believe that giving is one of the things that separates our species from all others. Perhaps it's the only thing that differentiates humans from the rest of our yet-to-be-encountered galactic neighbours. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1"> “Remember that the happiest people are not those getting more, but those giving more.” </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">– H. Jackson Brown, Jr.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Giving to charity is another important part of our society, and local community. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Charities exist for a reason. And it's our job to not only recognize the need in among our fellow men and women, but pitch in where and when we can. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I can never pass a homeless person or street performer in Toronto without tossing them a coin or two. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Some of us have a pet cause or charity and donate both time and money to helping others. Thank goodness for all of those dedicated service club members who form the foundation of our small towns. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There's been a downward trend in the proportion of Canadians donating to registered charities and the share of income they donate. I've been steadfast, almost to an annoying degree, in helping raise funds for my daughter Lexie. She goes on one or two volunteer humanitarian trips each year, helping those in developing countries. It's part of who she is. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">She says it's a passion, an urge deep down, that has to be met. She not only gives, she receives the richness of humanity in the people she meets. She learns about cultures, attitudes, strength of faith, hope, family and love. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">These are all intangible, but oh, so valuable.</span></p>]]></content-encoded>
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